Get to know our team

It's nice to meet you!  Your pastoral staff is here to serve you!


Father Patrick Nelson, SDS

Father Pat joined our parish community on July 1, 2018.  He is an ordained priest of the Salvatorian order, the Society of the Divine Savior.  He is grateful to be here to service the faithful of our parish. 

Frank Pemper

Deacon Frank is an ordained deacon of the Archdiocese of Milwaukee for the past 25 years.  He has been serving the faithful of our parish for the past 3 years.
Marcy Stone

Marcy Stone

Parish Life Minister
Marcy joined our staff in September 2022. Previously, Marcy worked at the Archdiocese of Milwaukee Central Office overseeing events and special programs. She was the coordinator for the Archdiocesan wide Soles for Catholic Education Walk benefitting all Archdiocese of Milwaukee Catholic schools. Marcy lives in Germantown with her husband, has three grown children and one grandson. She is excited to be part of the St. Margaret Mary family.
Tony Dompke

Tony Dompke

Executive Secretary
Tony joined our staff in August of 2022. He is a member of Mother of Good Counsel Parish. He is married with three children, and is currently a candidate in the Permanent Diaconate Formation program for the Archdiocese of Milwaukee.

Vicki Harder. Ph.D., MBA, BBA

Director of Administrative Services
Vicki joined our team in July, 2018. She previously served as the DAS at another parish. Her accounting experience includes 16 years of banking and management experience. She earned her MBA from UW-Milwaukee and a doctorate in Psychology from Marquette. She has been a licensed psychologist for 20 years. She is thrilled to be part of the St. Margaret Mary family.
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neal Bardele

Director of Music
Neal has been part of StMMP's music ministry program since 2011, and attended StMMP grade school. He also performs throughout SE Wisconsin as a jazz pianist. He holds a B.S. degree from Marquette University & an MBA from UW-Madison. He lives in Wauwatosa with his wife & his daughter is a graduate student in the Boston area.

Jessica Borkowski

School Principal
Mrs. Borkowski brings numerous years of experience working on Milwaukee's Northside. She recently was the Master Teacher at Northwest Catholic School. Mrs. Borkowski completed the Burke Leadership program and is a proud recipient of the Herb Kohl Teacher Fellowship Award. Mrs. Borkowski has been married to her husband for over 20 years and they have two children. 

Mark Dergin

Building & Grounds Crew Chief